Me and my Mouth
Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.
I wish I was better at that.
Lately, my mouth has led me into some uncomfortable situations.
My most recent New Testament class is a good example of opening my mouth too quickly. Without thinking, I asked my class to reconsider a theological position re: understanding the sovereignty of God. Note to self, don’t go there.
On Sunday morning a man in the congregation confronted me, yet again, about concerns he had with my area of church oversight. As soon as he opened his mouth I knew mine would be opening soon thereafter. I wanted to tell him to “bite me”. I didn’t but I did I end up regretting what I said.
Today I received an email from someone with high expectations. Without thinking I pounded out a quick, angry, and articulate response challenging his assumptions of me. Before hitting send I reread my response. God spoke to me. He recommended that I not send the email. He suggested that I reword my response.
I took my hands off the keyboard, took a deep breath, and sent a light and openhanded reply.
I think my most recent interaction proves that an ability to read/rehearse words before you send/speak them is a valuable discipline.
If only my mouth typed words. I might have a better chance of locking it down until I’ve taken a moment to respond appropriately.
